Workplace essays from a decade in HR
A fairer way to get through the workday
You do the work. Somehow, you get the blame too. Why does this keep happening in small companies? Look behind the office logic and find a response you can actually use tomorrow.

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01When your pay makes no sense
Why Is My Salary Lower Than a New Hire’s? — The Salary Truth No One Tells You at Small and Mid-Sized Companies
If you’ve stuck it out for years only to earn less than someone who just joined, the reason isn’t personal—it’s market logic. A 10-year HR manage…
Read the story02When someone else’s job becomes yours
Why Do Coworkers End Up Fighting? Because the Company Won’t Take Responsibility
When departments keep colliding over where work begins and ends, the real problem is often what the company has failed to define. In a workplace…
Read the story03When work follows you home
Should You Reply to Work Messages After Hours?
When should you reply to work messages after hours? This essay looks at why senders and recipients end up with different expectations, and lays o…
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Browse all workplace stories →Why Do the Best Workers End Up Leaving Last?
The reason work piles up on the people who do it well is surprisingly simple: managers reach for the easiest person to rely on, and companies rar…
Why Am I the Only One Not Getting a Raise? The Secret Behind Salaries for Office Workers – Luck Only Works When You’re Ready
"I’ll take on more if you raise my salary" versus "You get a raise after you prove you can handle more." A 10-year HR manager shares the moment h…
Why Is a Company So Cruel and Cold? — Why Small Businesses Can’t Help But Feel Distant to Employees
Why are companies so cold to their employees? A 10-year HR manager lays out the structural reasons small businesses can’t easily respond to even…
Ask First vs. Don’t Ask, Just Figure It Out
For new employees, the most confusing part of office life is hearing one thing one day and the opposite the next: ask before you do it, then stop…
Incompetent Sycophants vs. Smart Employees Who Speak Up
If you did a good job and still got singled out for speaking up, why does that happen? In Korean small and midsize companies, here’s why the empl…
Vague Instructions: What Am I Supposed to Do? East-West Differences in How Work Gets Assigned
If you ask, they tell you not to ask. If you handle it on your own, they ask why you didn’t check first. This piece looks at why supervisors keep…
Four questions before you take on someone else’s job
A job description sets out your role. A delegation of authority policy identifies who can approve what. Check both the written rules and what actually happens.
Open the practical question sheet
- “Could we check where this task falls in my job description?”
- “Under our delegation of authority policy, who gives final approval, and what can I decide myself?”
- “If this takes priority, which deadline for my current work should move?”
- “May I email a summary of the owner, approver, and deadline we just agreed on?”
Written rules may not match daily practice, and some workplaces will resist even these questions. Use them to record the answer and clarify the boundaries of your responsibility.
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